WHAT IS A TWIN FLAME?
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What is the difference between a Soulmate and a Twin Flame?
Each person, no matter their zodiac sign, has the chance to meet a twin flame within their lifetime. This connection is often misunderstood, sometimes confused with a soulmate relationship, but the two are ultimately very different because they serve separate purposes within our lives. Soulmates enter our lives often to support us and join us upon our journeys, whereas twin flames are incarnated to transform our lives radically—often by helping us look within the mirror to better understand our mission and ourselves in this lifetime. While both are based on a spiritual connection, they play out very differently when they enter our lives. We tend to have many soulmates as opposed to one, which is a common misconception. Twin flames, however, are currently believed to exist only in one other incarnation, while there have been reports of a few. Soulmates and twin flames are both rare, but the latter is much more so.
What is a Twin Flame connection?
Twin flame connections can sometimes be likened to love at first sight, but on a deep, soul level. These relationships function as a mirror to us and are often a soul that is cut from the same “fabric” as we are. Some spiritual scholars suggest that a twin flame is one soul shared between two bodies. However, this is not necessarily the case, because each soul is perfect and whole within itself and does not need any other person or relationship to complete it.
People who experience a twin flame relationship often share an intense psychic connection and are extremely sensitive to one another’s energies—even if they are not physically present. Twin flames help us to work through profound emotional material by bringing transformative experiences into our lives. These connections are often more intense than those of soulmate relationships—and neither rapport is limited to an explicitly romantic realm. Twin flame rapports are super charged and often equally uncomfortable. While there are many possibilities for how a twin flame connection will play out, a common story is that one of the pair may run from it, afraid to deal with the intensity of the issues that they are facing between them. This is due to a fear of looking within as much as it is about standing before the other partner.
The key to a successful twin flame connection is to do the work internally, otherwise it will ultimately become a highly volatile and destructive connection. If both partners do not agree to experience the uncomfortable growth, the rapport will often be short lasting. Very few twin flame connections last for a lifetime, but their effects are everlasting. When a twin flame relationship finally reaches its closure, it is vitally important to move forward and move on, rather than dwelling on the missed connection. They are instead preparing you for your destiny and more fulfilling relationships in the future.
Who Is My Twin Flame?
In order to understand who your twin flame is, there must be several factors present that give insight into the connection. These relationships are often some of the most memorable ones in a lifetime, as there is a level of intimacy not only physically, but also within the soul.
With your twin flame, there is an instant recognition between you the moment that you meet. This magnetic pull is overpowering and is often tied to an intense bond unequaled by others. You will feel as if you’ve met before—perhaps in another lifetime. While this creates a sense of “coming home,” the intensity of the rapport will eventually drive the two apart. Your twin flame connection is also likely to be a rapidly moving relationship that forces you into turmoil where you face a great deal of inner growth. While you may feel this bond is inescapable, it is ultimately teaching you to release it and accept what you have learned.
Breaking up with a twin flame often brings up painful feelings of loss, as if one feels they are breaking up with a piece of their own soul. Because of the psychic connection between the both of you, you each also likely feel one another’s confusion and pain. This rapport helps one to see a greater divine connection between themselves, others, and human beings.
Twin flames often bring out a ferocious desire, passion, and vulnerability between one another, as well. This energy can feel overwhelming, which is what tends to cause the rapport to shatter once a lifetime of lessons is learned in a very short period of time.
Moments that happen between you and your twin flame often seem to happen in slow motion, as you feel like you’re watching a movie happen before your eyes in vivid detail. This is because the memory is being imprinted upon your mind and soul.
What Is A Twin Flame in Astrology?
Astrology can give clues to whether or not someone is another’s twin flame. Some—if not all—factors will likely be present. However, because a twin flame is a soul connection, there does not need to be anything beyond just an individual’s genuine understanding on a core level of what it is that exists between them. For instance, while the following astrological factors tend to happen for most people, sometimes the typical compatibility isn’t always there. It is crucial to analyze how each other’s planets aspect with one another’s, as well as in which houses they fall. Even just one of the following contacts denotes a powerful connection.
Often times Sun sign placements in the same element occur between twin flames, revealing there is a likeness between the two individuals. On certain occasions, two people may even share a same birthday—or at the very least have planets that conjunct one another’s Sun’s. Fire sign twins tend to be: Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius. Earth sign twins often are: Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn. Air sign twins may be: Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius. Water sign twins sometimes are: Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces. However, as previously stated—this is not always the case one hundred percent of the time.
The North Node of the Moon, which shows one’s purpose and life direction, is often another factor that overlays the two people’s charts. If their nodes intersect or they have planets that conjunct or aspect each other’s, this reveals a tremendous karmic pull. It often feels like the two were “meant to meet.”
Also, twin flames tend to have powerful interactions between their natal Suns and Moons. Conjunctions are the most impactful, as it often feels the two share a life force and soul. This promotes powerful attraction and affinity. However, aspects also enhance this quality.
The most common astrological design between two twin flames tends to be many planets that conjunct simultaneously, often in one place in the sky. These can be especially potent when they interact with one’s Ascendant or Descendant.
5 Tips For Finding Your Twin Flame
First and foremost, do not “try” to meet your twin flame. This is a lost cause and will not lead anyone to the other through a conscious desire or effort. Soulmates and twin flames come into our lives when they are meant to—not when we think we are ready or when we want them to.
Release expectations and your perceptions of who or what kind of soulmate or twin flame connection is meant for you. It will never be what you expect it to be, especially with preconceived notions.
Focus on living your life and being present within the moment.
Devote time to your own mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual development.
Let go of control and surrender to your ultimate divine highest good. You are limited by the human perception and cannot see all ends or why things are developing as they are until you have learned their lessons and are reflecting in retrospect.
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Kyle Thomas is a globally recognized pop culture astrologer who has been featured on Access Hollywood, E! Entertainment, NBC & ABC television, Cosmopolitan Magazine, the New York Post, Page Six, Hulu, Seventeen Magazine, Bustle, Elite Daily, House Beautiful, Marie Claire, and more. He is known for his cosmic guidance for celebrities, business executives, and prominent influencers. His work harnesses the power of the stars in regards to entertainment lifestyle and trends affecting people worldwide. His writing and horoscopes have been translated into multiple languages. Kyle has been astrologically gifted naturally from a very young age and teaches how to use the Universe to manifest the life you've always dreamt of. With over a decade of professional experience and clients all over the world, he currently resides in Los Angeles where he works as a professional astrologer, celebrity life coach, and author. Currently, he is the official astrologer for @Horoscopes + @Horo.ScopesDaily. Kyle received two Bachelor of Arts for Psychology and English from the University of Wisconsin-Madison and integrates these degrees into his growing research of psychology, personality, and the human condition.