LOVE AND SEX WITH SCORPIO
SCORPIO
An Overview of Love & Sex
Fixed Water Sign
Power Colors: Dark Red and Maroon
Ruling Planets: Pluto and Mars
Scorpio is the sign represented by the Scorpion. This sign is all about intense and tremendous passion, as well as the ability to dominate and submit, and be reborn from our ashes. Transformation through union with others is key to Scorpio energy. Sexuality is a natural aspect of this sign, as well as the hidden parts of our psyche that lie beneath the surface. Scorpio is all about extremes — all or nothing, in or out, now or never. This profound and powerful energy is what also makes them so irresistible: a darkness, but also a light. Scorpio easily knows how to reflect our deepest desires, whether for love, sex, or power. Scorpio Rising (Ascendent) or Scorpio Sun will express these qualities deeply.
Scorpio in Love:
Scorpios are intense, passionate, and deeply emotional. They crave union of body and soul with a partner and hunt throughout life for someone who fascinates, yet grounds them. Known to be extremely possessive, this is because of their "all or nothing" view on love. They transform through their relationships and like to be consumed by their love so deeply that it changes their view of the world. Romance is important when courting a Scorpio, but so is power. They only give their heart to someone they deem as worthy. Because they are always "playing for keeps" with their heart, they often find it quite difficult to let go of relationships that do not work out in the end. Ruled by fiery planets Mars and Pluto, their emotions can easily fluctuate between love and hate.
Scorpio in Sex:
Scorpios thirst for erotic experiences that are transformative, intense, and that push their limits. As one of the most passionate zodiac signs, they find sex to be about the union of the psychological and the physical. Prone to a ravenous sexual appetite, they often use it to get what they want—whether that be power or love. Scorpios are a Water Sign, hinting at the great depth of their emotions. Sex helps them ground these fierce feelings within their bodies by connecting with a partner. They can be very sexually active in between partners, but once they find their sweetheart, they desire erotic union in almost a ritualistic manner. Scorpios are drawn to experimentation and danger when it comes to exploring sexuality, and are attracted to whatever will bring them their most memorable experiences.
Ideal Partner for Scorpio:
Scorpio is attracted to partners who are loyal, grounded, and steady — attributes that bring stability to their more tumultuous extremes internally. Scorpio also enjoys lovers who have a strong set of values and plans forward — someone who can press onward despite any obstacle. Because Scorpio is such a watery sign, they are naturally drawn to those who can supply for them or help bring material resources into their lives — especially things that have long-term value. They are also drawn to partners who are immensely sensual and affectionate, and able to pull them out of their minds and back into their bodies. While sex can be enjoyed recreationally between committed relationships, when monogamous, they demand a union of sex and love. Also, when it comes to commitments, Scorpio does not make them lightly, so when they have finally chosen to make it official, they have great difficulty letting it go without self-destructing or destroying their ex — or both.
Areas for Improvement:
Scorpio is known to be tremendously jealous, vindictive, and malicious when angered. This, in itself, makes Scorpio stubborn and difficult to adapt to new emotional experiences or traumas. Also, because Scorpio has such deep emotions, they may have problems communicating what they’re feeling — until it finally explodes out of nowhere. This also lends itself to making them very secretive and manipulative in order to get what they want. To improve this, make sure that you are assessing what you want now and in the future — and in order to not hurt yourself or others in the process — communicate those plans directly. Meditation and exercise can help ground this, as well. Focus on letting go of what you cannot control and be grateful for the things that you can.e truth of the situation, you can better communicate with your sweetheart.
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